I used to find myself difficult to let go of things, thinking it's still good for me though I even barely use it. Sometimes, it's the sentimental value that goes with it that stops me from letting one object go. Eventually things will pile up until it clutters your room and become a hurdle to the everyday movement inside your space.
As it turns out, letting go of things shouldn't be that hard and melo-dramatic. I guess we become more objective as we age, hence it is now easier to throw the unnecessary clutter and actually feel the benefit of doing so (like wider space). Same goes with the unnecessary people in our life. We tend to hold on to the people we think are still good for us even though we already knew better. This is what I've been practicing some years ago. Not that relationships don't matter to me, but it's actually the opposite. I want quality/real relationship/friendship with the people around me. The kind of relationship that would allow both parties to grow and learn. If you are just friends through Instagram, always waiting who gets to post the best shot of the day, or the kind of friends who bonds through feeding each other with rumors about other people, well that's just too bad and sad because you're not having "quality" in your relationship. If someone or something is keeping you from growing, leave. Run for your life. Evade. Doing so would give you a more peaceful and quiet life. I know you are intelligent and you know what I mean. :)
Who needs an extra baggage anyway, right? Right.
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