If it weren't for someone else's IG post re their monthsary, I wouldn't have remembered that yesterday was ours. Lol. Jo and I are not particularly conscious of that special date in each month that we usually end up laughing out loud at our forgetfulness or of lack of awareness. Not that we don't treat the date special, but I guess we've outgrown the idea of the word, "monthsary". (Whoa BIG claim, Sam). I remember reading somewhere that the reason behind celebrating monthsaries is because few couples are actually reaching their anniversaries these days.
Girls, are usually particular about remembering that day of the month. Sometimes it's even a cause for a trivial fight. I used to be that kind of cheesy girlfriend but I thank God for the maturity as I age and as I learn and grow with Jo.
Don't get me wrong, though. I have NOTHING against celebrating monthsaries, and I am happy for every couple that are doing the trend as I used to be like one as well. I'm just amused as to how my views regarding relationships have changed. It's not about the dates forgotten but each moment you experience together: the rials, triumphs, shallow misunderstandings, laughter, and security from being together. :)
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